I'm sure you have seen some of the laughably bold claims these 'gurus' make, such as how their seduction techniques will make you into a guy who can magically pull ANY woman, no matter who you are, etc.
I decided to write this post because of the absolute ridiculousness of a claim I read from a well known 'pick up artist' in the seduction community. He claims his method will allow you to 'bypass a woman's rejection circuitry, allowing you no possibility of ever being rejected by any woman ever again'.
Wow, really?! How much do I pay you for this 'magic secret', and does it come with a wand, a magician's hat and some fairy dust? Lol.
I want to comment on this because that 'guru' is selling an absolute outright LIE and CON if he thinks he's discovered some magic seduction technique which will 'bypass a woman's rejection circuitry' every time. And when I say a LIE, I mean a fucking big lie with great big capital 'L'.
Look, allow me to explain one simple fact of life: you cannot override a person's free will, no matter how skilled you think you or your 'seduction techniques' are. (Unless you force someone into doing something against their will, but that is never a good idea, of course).
Sure, some people claim to be able to hypnotise people and get them to do things they wouldn't normally do, but to me that's manipulation and it's playing with fire because you're trying to override someone's free will and not giving them the free choice to decide whether they want to do something or not.
I don't care how good that 'guru' thinks his 'seduction method' is, there is simply NO WAY he can 'never get rejected' and always 'bypass a woman's rejection circuitry' with every woman he approaches. In effect, he's trying to find ways to get woman who are NOT attracted to him to hook up with him against their will. Not only is that extremely futile and a waste of time and effort, it's also downright sleazy and unethical too.
That 'guru' also has absolutely NO EVIDENCE to back up his claims. I don't believe a fucking word of what he says.
And here's the truth about the mythical concept of a woman's 'rejection circuitry'. These 'gurus' think that when a woman rejects them, it's because her 'rejection circuitry' kicked in....therefore if they use their 'seduction techniques' properly they can magically bypass this 'rejection circuitry' and end up hooking up with her. Sorry to burst their bubble, but the REAL TRUTH is that if a woman rejects you, it's because she just wasn't attracted to you. End of story. It wasn't because her 'rejection circuitry' kicked in. Nope. She just didn't find you attractive. Accept it and move on to another girl.
These 'gurus' believe that 'rejection circuitry' is some evil hurdle that women throw in front of guys who approach them, which can magically be overcome with the right 'seduction techniques'. But the truth is, it can't. No amount of 'seduction techniques' will allow a guy to hook up with a girl who just isn't attracted to him. And anyone who actually tries out these 'seduction techniques' in the REAL WORLD will find this to be true.
Fortunately, our trusty Direct approach once again comes to our rescue here. All women should be put in a position where they have absolute free choice to decide whether they want to hook up with a guy or not. And the beauty of Direct is that it allows women exactly that....
BEING DIRECT WITH WOMEN ALLOWS THEM THE FREE WILL TO DECIDE WHETHER THEY WANT TO HOOK UP WITH YOU OR NOT
With the Direct approach, women have total free will to say 'yes' or 'no' to hooking up with you when you are Direct with them. And that's how it should be.
Guys should never force or manipulate women into hooking up with them if the women don't want to hook up with them. And that is where that 'guru's' 'seduction method' is totally flawed.
I hope you can see the utter fucking idiocy of these PUAs and seduction community 'gurus'. Hopefully this post has convinced you of how lame they are by now.