On the other hand, if you've ever been indirect, under confident and 'beat around the bush' with women, have you noticed how cowardly and weak you felt? The same applies if you have ever tried all those bullshit PUA/seduction community techniques and tactics; if you're honest with yourself, you will have felt weak and unmanly when using that stuff.
To be blunt, I think being indirect and using PUA techniques turns guys into girlie, effeminate men. Everything about that way of doing things just makes you really feminine in the eyes of women, and if you want to be successful with women then you're not going to get very far by acting feminine and emasculated like that. Heck, I'd even go so far as to say that indirect/PUA techniques makes men come off as camp and gay to women.
On the other hand, being Direct is the path to being a real man, which I'll talk more about later in this post.
Back in my indirect days before I was a Direct guy, deep down I didn't feel happy with the way I interacted with women and I knew something had to change. When I started working on becoming a fully fledged Direct guy, that all started to change and I felt much more alive and free.
HOW BEING DIRECT MAKES YOU GROW UP & BECOME A REAL MAN
When you are Direct through and through, in all areas of your life, you start to become a real man and no longer a boy. And yes, there are plenty of grown men who act like boys and aren't yet true men.
Direct is the way of a real man. Indirect, PUA techniques and all other such ways of interacting with women are for boys and weak ass guys. When you're indirect with women, you basically pander to their needs and in doing so become a weak guy with no backbone.
Direct is a way of life. It is not only something you do with women, but something you are in all areas of your life. It is about living a life of no compromise, being the man you were put on earth to be and living the life that makes you happiest and most fulfilled without compromising just to please other people.
When it comes to approaching and dating women, Direct is about not compromising yourself or your romantic/sexual needs in your relationships. You hear a lot of bullshit advice in society telling you that 'you have to makes compromises in relationships', but a true Direct guy would never do that.
When you speak your mind honestly with ALL people you meet and you live the life you truly want to without caring what anyone else thinks, you will definitely feel more powerful and alive on the inside.
DIRECT, MASCULINE ROLE MODELS (REAL MEN)
In society there are some men who I would consider to be good examples of guys who are Direct, masculine, real men.
Why do you think many guys are fascinated by cowboys, Vikings, soldiers, rock stars, and other 'warrior' types? It's because these guys are all really masculine guys, and watching these sort of men in action speaks to the core part of a lot of guys; deep down they're envious and would secretly love to be more like these types of men, or at least live life with a bit more balls and courage like they do.
Can you imagine guys like Lemmy from Motorhead, Gene Simmons, Tommy Lee, Steven Tyler etc being indirect and hesitant with women? Fuck no! They're all Direct guys through and through from the way they live their lives to the way they pursue women.
Guys like this are excellent examples of being Direct with women as well as a way of life; they ooze masculinity and they're in touch with their sexuality and they pursue women they're attracted to without apology.
WOMEN ARE HARD WIRED TO BE ATTRACTED TO A DIRECT GUY
When you approach and meet women, do you interact with them like a real man, a masculine, sexual guy? Or are you a feminine, emasculated chump?
Deep down women want a guy to be Direct. Do you really think women they fantasise about their dream guy approaching them in a weak, indirect, nervous sort of way? Hell no! If they're really honest, they want to be swept of their feet by a guy who approaches them like a real man, Direct and to the point, not afraid to go for what he wants. Indirect approaches just won't cut it, but Direct does.
If you want to become a real man who is seen as masculine in the eyes of women, be a Direct guy. If you want to be a girlie man, be indirect. I don't think it takes a genius to figure out which is the better way.
There will be a follow up to this post soon which talks more about how men in modern society have become more feminine and less masculine than in previous generations, and how being Direct is the cure. Stay tuned for that post soon....